Human beings are ancient organisms living inside radically novel environments while largely forgetting what they are.
That sentence may eventually become one of the most
important realizations of the modern age. Not because it is dramatic or
mystical, but because it may explain an astonishing amount of modern suffering.
Over the last several months, I have been circling around a theory about ADHD,
burnout, shame, identity disruption, modern work, and what increasingly appears
to be a broad evolutionary mismatch between ancient nervous systems and modern
civilization. At first, I framed this mostly through the metaphor of “hunters
in a farmer’s world,” and while I still think there is truth there, I now
believe the situation is far more nuanced and far more important.
The problem is not simply that some people are hunters. The
problem is that all human beings are composite creatures built for environments
radically different from the ones we now inhabit. And the even bigger problem
is this: modern society increasingly behaves as though only one part of the
human being is real.
The citizen.
The planner. The organizer. The administrator. The office
worker. The email answerer. The schedule keeper. The rational, controlled,
compliant self.
Modern civilization increasingly treats this citizen-self as
though it is the entire organism. But it isn’t. Not even close.
The modern human being is not one thing. The modern human
being is a coalition.
We are Voltron.
And before we can form Voltron, we need to understand the
lions.
For over 95% of human existence, Homo sapiens lived in small
cooperative groups deeply embedded in nature. We moved constantly. We solved
immediate physical problems. We navigated relationships face to face. We
existed inside highly variable environments filled with movement, uncertainty,
danger, novelty, physicality, and direct contact with reality. Then,
astonishingly recently, agriculture emerged. Cities formed. Industry exploded.
Finally, the administrative age arrived.
Not merely the information age.
The administrative age.
A world increasingly built around abstraction, bureaucracy,
schedules, paperwork, predictive systems, prolonged sedentary cognition,
digital coordination, and endless low-level compliance with systems too large
for any one human nervous system to truly comprehend.
This transformation happened unbelievably fast on an
evolutionary timescale. The nervous systems now attempting to survive modern
office life were not designed inside office life. They were shaped inside
radically different conditions.
And yet because we are born into this environment, it feels
normal.
That may be the most dangerous illusion of all.
Every generation unconsciously mistakes its environment for
moral reality. Whatever society normalizes begins to feel obvious, correct,
natural, and inevitable. But modern life is not normal in the evolutionary
sense. It is astonishingly strange.
We sit indoors most of the day. We stare at glowing
rectangles. We communicate through text more than touch. We suppress movement,
suppress emotion, suppress tribe, suppress physicality, suppress play, suppress
recovery, and suppress instinct. Then we blame individuals when the suppressed
systems begin malfunctioning.
But perhaps those systems are not malfunctioning.
Perhaps they are protesting.
This is where my thinking about ADHD has begun changing
dramatically. I no longer think ADHD is best understood as a defect. Nor do I
think it should be romanticized into superhero mythology. I increasingly
suspect that ADHD may be one particularly visible manifestation of a much
larger mismatch between ancient nervous systems and modern civilization.
The person with ADHD may simply be the person whose nervous
system cannot fully camouflage itself inside the modern environment.
The canary in the coal mine.
The alarm system.
And historically, alarm systems were not enemies of the
tribe. They protected the tribe. The scout yelling “danger” was disruptive. The
child noticing smoke before everyone else was disruptive. The nervous system
that could not relax because something felt wrong was disruptive.
But disruption is not always dysfunction.
Sometimes disruption is information.
This does not mean every impulse should be obeyed. It does
not mean civilization itself is evil. It does not mean ancient life was
paradise. It means that perhaps certain nervous systems are reacting honestly
to an environment that has become psychologically and biologically bizarre
compared to the environments that shaped us.
And maybe that is why people with ADHD often cannot simply
“shut up” about these things. Not because they are morally superior or
specially chosen, but because the mismatch is physically, emotionally,
socially, and cognitively harder for them to ignore. The coal mine feels
poisonous sooner.
The biggest breakthrough in my thinking came when I stopped
treating the self as singular. Modern society teaches us that we are primarily
rational citizens who occasionally experience primitive urges. I now suspect
the reality is almost the reverse. The citizen is only one member of a much
older coalition.
At minimum, every human being appears to contain four major
systems operating simultaneously.
First is the living organism. This is the biological
creature that needs air, water, food, sleep, movement, elimination, warmth,
recovery, and reproduction. Civilization already understands this layer fairly
well. Bathrooms exist everywhere because humans need elimination. Restaurants
exist because humans need food. Hospitals exist because bodies break down.
Society has already learned, at least partially, that the organism cannot
simply be negotiated out of existence.
Above the organism sits the ape. The ape is the emotional
primate system. The ape notices status, attraction, fairness, humiliation,
dominance, exclusion, body language, threat, and social tension. The ape is
ancient, fast, emotional, protective, and powerful. The ape is why shame hurts
physically. The ape is why loneliness hurts physically. The ape is why
attraction hijacks attention and why anger can overpower reason.
Modern civilization pretends the ape should not exist while
simultaneously manipulating the ape constantly through advertising, politics,
entertainment, and social media. The ape is not gone. The ape is driving half
the economy.
Then comes perhaps the most forgotten lion of all: the
tribesperson.
Human beings evolved in small cooperative groups. Belonging
mattered. Contribution mattered. Reputation mattered. Exile mattered. The
tribesperson monitors loyalty, approval, usefulness, rejection, and social
safety. This is why “being in trouble” feels like more than embarrassment. It
feels existential.
For a child repeatedly corrected, shamed, excluded, or
misunderstood, the tribesperson does not hear:
“Please improve this behavior.”
The tribesperson hears:
“You are becoming dangerous to your place in the tribe.”
And if ADHD is fundamentally misunderstood, then millions of
children may have been receiving chronic tribal alarm signals for behaviors
emerging from mismatch rather than moral failure. That changes the emotional
equation dramatically.
Finally, there is the citizen. The citizen plans,
coordinates, inhibits, reflects, schedules, and delays gratification. The
citizen is extraordinary. Civilization could not exist without it. But the
citizen fatigues. It burns energy. It requires recovery. Under enough stress,
it can be overpowered by the older systems.
The mistake of modern civilization has been assigning the
citizen nearly total responsibility while denying the existence and legitimacy
of the older lions.
The citizen has been forced to drive while the other systems
were stuffed into the trunk.
And eventually the trunk bursts open.
But I suspect there may be one more lion. Something
stranger. Not exactly another system, but an emergent phenomenon arising from
all the others interacting together.
The gestalt self.
The integrated being.
Not the organism alone. Not the ape alone. Not the
tribesperson alone. Not the citizen alone. But the coordinated whole emerging
from all of them interacting together. Perhaps this is where psychology has
often struggled: trying to determine which lion is “the real self.”
Maybe none of them are.
Maybe the true self is the alliance itself.
The formed Voltron.
At first, I believed the primary problem was the mismatch
itself. Now I’m no longer sure. I think many mismatch problems are surprisingly
solvable. More movement. More sunlight. More flexibility. More meaningful work.
More tribe-like connection. More physicality. More recovery. More play. More
intimacy. More adventure. More creativity. More rest. Perhaps even more
laughter, touch, and sex—not because these things are indulgent, but because
they are biologically congruent.
No, the deeper problem may actually be ignorance.
We do not know what we are.
We think we are only citizens.
And when the ape revolts, the organism collapses, or the
tribesperson panics, we interpret these signals morally instead of
structurally. We blame character. We intensify shame. We activate tribal
correction systems harder. We force the citizen to tighten control further.
And the internal war escalates.
But perhaps the answer is not suppression.
Perhaps the answer is coordination.
The lions are not enemies. They are all trying to protect
the organism according to their own logic. The organism wants survival. The ape
wants vitality and protection. The tribesperson wants belonging. The citizen
wants order and continuity.
The tragedy is not that these systems exist.
The tragedy is that nobody formally introduced them to each
other.
This essay is only the beginning. Because before Voltron can
form, the lions must first recognize one another, stop fighting for sole
control, and begin understanding what each one contributes.
And perhaps that is where humanity now stands.
Not at the end of civilization.
Not at the triumph of rationality.
Not at the collapse of human nature.
But at the beginning of remembering what we actually are.
We are not broken machines failing to meet administrative
expectations. We are ancient cooperative beings living inside systems that
changed faster than our self-understanding.
And if that is true, then this is not anybody’s fault.
But it is everybody’s problem.
Perhaps the first act of wisdom is very simple:
Open the trunk.
Invite the lions back into the council chamber.
And finally learn how to form Voltron.

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